If you have a family that you dread seeing at holidays because their behavior is negative and unhealthy, then I'm sure you feel uneasy as we approach the holiday season. If you've tried to feel comfortable in the past, either because you've expressed your concerns or you just try to ignore it, and it hasn't worked, consider this alternative. Make your OWN HOLIDAYS. I know that may sound extreme but you deserve to have healthy experiences. Read on to find out how to spend Christmas Day free from family stress!